Sunday, October 12, 2008

Grow Old Along With Me

After 14 years of blissful marriage (well, today I feel that way), I have plenty of reasons to be grateful.  I feel like I indeed have achieved grand happiness.


I love my husband.
  
We seem to be opposites in so many ways but on the same page when it truly counts.  Maybe that's why it just works.  He's gentle, passionate, he's a simple, people-pleasing hard-worker and a spiritual giant in my eyes.  He loves the gospel and honors his priesthood.  He loves being a daddy, but he's very human and we're just trying to wade through this life together all the while trying to remember to smell the roses along the way.  

We still look forward to each other coming home at the end of the day...perfect we are NOT, but perfect for each other, yes!  Marriage takes a ton of work especially when you sometimes feel you have to 'fit it in' between six other very needful things.  The key is to try everyday... we communicate really well most times and always either agree to disagree or become 'one' on the important stuff.  He is my best friend.  

I've seen old couples, I mean really old couples all my life and the sweetest old couple I've ever witnessed was President Gordon B. Hinckley and his sweet and spunky wife, Marjorie.  I aspire to grow old with my honey and walk hand in hand as we shuffle down the street and visit our gazillion grandchildren & truly enjoy our posterity.  I want to be that really old sweet couple one day.  Grand happiness...yes, that's what it is.  


Today is our anniversary and yesterday I took Curt on.....no, not a trip to Venice...but something a lot more affordable and close to home...the Coronado Cays and yes, that is a gondola.  Thanks, cute Sarah for the idea....it was shear peace and serenity for an hour--that's all we needed to recharge our batteries and face our busy lives again!

Thank you for 14 years of bliss--the good, the bad, the sweet, the rough, the crazy....so why don't you 'grow old along with me?'  
Happy 14th Anniversary, babe!

16 comments:

queenieweenie said...

Happy Anniversary! What a sweet tribute to your hubby and marriage in general. I agree...you two ARE perfect for each other.

Love you.

flip flop mama said...

Happy Anniversary!

Poppy said...

Wow...you must be really old! Way older than me! What a fun evening. Happy anniversary.

Sarah said...

Yay, I'm so glad you went down there! And you got some really AMAZING pictures! Happy Anniversary. :)

Teresa Beth Brower Timms said...

I'm so thankful that each of my children have such wonderful Eternal Companions.

You're evening looks PERFECT!

Jan Kate Brower Arnell said...

Well... Happy anniversary!

Halversen Happenings said...

Happy Anniversary! The pictures are beautiful.

Julie K said...

Congratulations--and I thought it was just Pie and me that were so opposite (so perfectly opposite). It's nice to hear about others like us out there. Isn't it fun to be 14 years in (for us 15)? I wouldn't be a new bride again for the world--it was great--ONCE--but thanks, I'll take older and wiser any day.

Angela said...

Happy Anniversary! This is Angela over at a Bushel and a Peck. You can use my thoughts on your blog (no problem!). If you don't mind giving me credit... The more we can educate and spread the word -- the better! Thanks for commenting!

Emily said...

What a cool thing to do! Happy anniversary!

rebecca said...

Happy ANniversary! Looks like such a fun way to celebarate...Also, I LOVE that song! THe lyrics are perfect.

Heather said...

Happy Anniversary! What a fun way to celebrate, and what a great thing to aspire to, being like Pres. Hinckley and his sweet wife! Glad that you guys had such a wonderful time on your ride.

Tammi said...

Fun anniversary date! You guys are so cute! You inspire me to do more stuff to surprise my husband. Happy Anniversary! Still got it after 14 years!

Michele said...

Happy 14th Shay and Curt! What a fabulous idea. Looks like you are in Venice. Love the sunset you captured.

Amy Proctor Timmerman said...

Happy Anniversary!

Saucy said...

Happy Belated Anniversary! With that many kids... you've got to take some time for yourselves! Enjoy!

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